Confidence. Purpose. Clarity. Connection.

The four things leaders want most, and the four things that become harder to access under pressure.

Confidence. Purpose. Clarity. Connection

Leaders who come to my work want to trust their decisions, align their actions with what matters, communicate in ways that strengthen trust, and build relationships that feel real rather than performative.

They are capable and committed, yet the pace and pressure of their roles have made it harder to lead the way they know they can. They want a leadership approach that is grounded, intentional, and deeply human.

I help leaders return to themselves so they can lead with confidence, engage with purpose, communicate with clarity, and connect authentically in their organizations, in their communities, and in their own lives.

Leaders come to me when they are carrying more than they can comfortably name. They are making decisions that affect people they care about, managing constant pressure, and trying to stay steady in environments that reward speed over depth. They know what strong leadership looks like, but the demands of their roles make it harder to stay aligned with it.

Inside their organizations, they are expected to be clear, composed, and decisive. At the same time, they are human beings navigating conflict, absorbing the stress of others, and trying to stay connected to what matters most. They often feel the weight of leadership without a place to set it down.

This is why they look for someone outside their company or family. They need a space where they do not have to perform, where they can think out loud without political consequences, and where the conversation is not shaped by anyone else’s agenda. They need a partner who can see the whole picture, ask the questions no one inside can ask, and help them get back to their own judgment and clarity.

People work with me because I offer that space. It is steady, grounded, and straightforward. I help leaders slow down enough to see what is true, return to themselves, and lead with confidence, purpose, clarity, and genuine connection in their organizations, in their communities, and in their own lives.

How We Work Together

Coaching
One-on-one work that creates clarity, courage, and grounded leadership.

Leadership Circles
Small, curated groups where leaders learn, reflect, and grow together.

Workshops and Retreats
Experiences that invite reflection, recalibration, and reconnection.

Each offering is designed to help leaders step out of reactivity and into presence in their work, their relationships, and their lives.

Which Woodcutter are you?

There is an old story about two woodcutters.
One works straight through lunch, swinging harder and harder as the day goes on.
The other stops, sits down, and sharpens his saw. By late afternoon, the one who paused is cutting with ease. The one who pushed through is exhausted, splintered, and barely making progress.

Most leaders I meet are the first woodcutter, not because they do not know better, but because the world has trained them to keep swinging. Harder. Faster. Longer.

The truth is simple. When you slow down, you can speed up.

When you pause long enough to notice the tightening in your shoulders or the clench in your jaw, you begin to see what is actually happening beneath the surface. You begin to lead from clarity instead of tension.

This work is the sharpening. The moment at the table where you finally breathe and remember what matters. If something in you is ready for that kind of shift, you are in the right place.

“TenStone Solutions’ Coach, Layne Mielke, has an energy you just want to be around. This is demonstrated in her coaching through a balanced mix of head and heart. She also brings curiosity and enables accountability that encourages you to move forward. The result is that while still working through your challenges, you feel supported and empowered. If you need a person who is positive and has a grounded spirit that can help you reach your next level, Layne is the coach for you.”

—Adrienne W. HR Leader

Layne has a gift for understanding the complexity of people’s personal and professional experiences. She is a great thought partner and demonstrates a keen ability to see the possibilities for resolution and impact. I have benefitted tremendously from Layne’s coaching and highly reccommend her as an executive leadership coach who is making a significant impact on leaders and the communities they serve.

—Laura Dayal, Business Owner

Layne has been a phenomenal resource for my personal and professional growth in 2022. As my executive coach in a five-month program, she exuded mastery in active listening, asked deep questions, and provoked self-led growth in a supportive environment. Layne focused on first identifying my core values and beliefs that now guide my actions. She consistently delivered intellectual challenges, helped me set incremental SMART goals, and uncovered profound insights that enabled me to improve my life. By helping me connect with myself and my agency, Layne opened opportunities for me to better enrich my family relationships and thicken my professional network. Please consider connecting with Layne to raise your game if you seek personal and professional improvement.

—Michael Fazio, Deputy Commander

Layne has been incredible to work with because she unlocked areas where I was stuck for starting my business. Her positive energy and thought-provoking questions allowed me the space to be creative as well as dream big. Her attention to details in our conversations was helpful with self-evaluation along with building a timeline to launch my work.

—Gloria Price, Executive Director

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